Is she dating material for you? I don't expect men who do not like my online profile to message me either. That's natural selection.
And if you specifically opted to only see matches of the same gender, Tinder will still throw the opposite gender in there, because they apparently don't believe that you can actually just be gay. I am not huge on looks, I could care less about colors or height or things.
But for now, it's self-esteem crushing to open an inbox and see nothing but guys who have zero interest in you beyond sex. I am the type who lives in the moment. People ARE meeting in person. It's great being able to search for men who love hiking and binge-watching TV as much as I do.